Here are pictures on some of the most common connectors to fit your radio or your antenna.Some radios use reverse polarity (RP) connectors. There is no common definition to gender in this case. We define the gender based on the part that connects the ground/screen of the cable. Look at the pictures and you will understand.
AP-600 Cable type RGD 316 used for Orinoco AP-600/4000
BNC male
MCcard Cable type RGD316. Used for Orinoco, Compex etc.
MMCX female Used on PCcard Cisco etc.
MMCX male Cable type RGD316 Used for Cisco, Alvarion etc
N chassi female
N female
N male
RP-BNC male Cable type RG58 Used for Symbol etc.
RP-SMA chassi female Used on D-Link DWL900AP+ etc.
RP-SMA male Cable type LowLossRG58 Used for D-LinkLinksys, Netgear, SmartBridges etc.
RP-TNC male Cable type LowLoss RG58, C2FCPUsed for Linksys, Cisco etc.